Wednesday, March 27, 2013

I am not a box!

Wow, I haven't written in a long time! I was thinking about changing the style of my writing and talk about stuff that would be usefull to the ones who read it, but then I remembered one thing. I am not here to give you any advice or change the way you are. I am here to share my story.
And if my story is not big enough to have an impact on you while reading my posts I guess no other writing  style in the world could change it. The way you feel like when reading the things I share.
This is me. This is who I am.

So, today I was discussing an amazing thing that happens to all of us, I believe. As you grow up and learn many new things you tend to become more insecure while you are giving answers to particular questions. It might be at school, work, anywhere. Your head is stuffed with many dillemas and you think that there is only one right answer. But let me tell you a secret. As long as you think and have the abillity to connect various topics, criticize, approve or dissapprove of some ideas, share them and communicate to other people you are perfectly okay. There is no single answer to any question. There are only different angles to everything. You have to be creative. Once they asked to Nikola Tesla: "How did you find the way to do it correctly, when you had previously failed a thousand times?" Listen what he answered: " I have not failed a thousand times, I have only found a thousand ways it wouldn't work, and then the right way of doing it!"
This is something everyone should relate to. You never fail and you are never wrong in the process of trying. You are learning. You only fail if you don't give yourself a chance.

Being insecure is normal, but think of answers when talking to children. They have the most amazing ideas. Why? Because they know they do not have any limitations. There is no such thing as being wrong. You can only be too creative. Learn from children!
Think out of the box!